In our adolescence, we leave our homes to go to colleges and universities for higher studies. For many of us that would be the first time staying away from home alone. We make new friends, spend few years of our formative life together, graduate and then move out in search of our livelihood. In old days, many a times, that was the last time we would meet or correspondance with friends that we spent years together. Modern technology and social media is making it easier to track old friends whose memories we kept alive for years in our mind. Alas, with time people change. Memories of distant past and present clash sometimes and produce unexpected results.
Poem below is my feeling about meeting groups of old classmates in social media after decades of being completely out of touch. Those feelings may resonate with some of my readers. Appreciate your feedback.
We have traversed distances long
Climbed mountains high
Savored the fruit of success
Rewards of trials and tribulations
Journeyed to far corners of the world
From those days of youthful exuberance
Matured and became gracefully old
Separated by oceans and continents
We drifted far apart
But still striving to stay connected
Cherishing memories of a distant past
When words were playful and pranks aplenty
We who bonded away from our families and homes
Still feel the same about our dear friends of yore
Alas, somewhere along the journey long
With thinning hairs we developed a skin so thin
Words that we won’t give a hoot in our youth
Hurt now deeply, driving a knife into our hearts
Friends, wounded and sullen, move away
Others left to ponder what went wrong
Maybe time will heal and all will be allright again
Till then, hope and pray, with old age
Will grow some thick skin and common sense
Friends will remain friends till we meet again
I can so relate to this. This was so perfectly expressed my friend.
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Thank you so much.
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Very true. Friendships may wax and wane over the years.
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Thank you.
We sometime stay in a a sort of cocoon where time stays still but world moves forward.
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I now belong to several groups on Facebook and these are groups of childhood friends that I haven’t seen in ages. It’s certainly a beautiful thing and I appreciate social media for helping us keep in touch.
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It is definitely the plus point of social media.
On the negative side is the proliferation of forwarded messages and copy and paste messages that clog the message board and leave a bitter taste.
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A lovely tribute to friendship, one of the most important things in life. If your family fails, there is always a friend.
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Thank you.
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You are welcome.
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Friends are a blessing
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Yes, they are.
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